Being a Player: A Choice or A Need?

Disclaimer: The following post is purely my own personal opinion which is formed from my perception of things.

I think that people become players not because they choose to be one but because they don't have the luxury to choose. It is not because they do not want to get into a meaningful relationship but because they cannot get into one. Therefore, they become players to fulfill this missing part of their lives. For them, having a relationship, however unmeaningful, is better than not having any at all.

Just my two cents. You can disagree with me.