haih...i feel scared when he gets mad...i don't think he was joking...was i influenced too much by what i read? is it fair to judge him based on the horoscope thingy?? of course not! forget about the horoscope thing! i am in the wrong this time...my words are too much! of course he's not a child abuser, certainly he's not violent! how could he ever be one? i wouldn't have liked him if he is....i am really sorry those words came out from my mouth...i don't mean to hurt you..i am sorry...